The Art Of Accepting Compliments!!!!!

Val and I have been talking about this topic a lot lately. We both agree that even though we are both confident with our style and image, we still find it quite difficult to accept a compliment.So then we started wondering why? At first we thought maybe it was an Irish thing, but after researching the matter, we discovered that most females worldwide are taught to be modest and humble. We feel that accepting praise will make us seem arrogant, we don't want to appear as cocky or self-absorbed, therefore accepting a compliment is a big 'no no'.

Any of our Irish readers will be able to relate to the whole "€10 Penny's expression", which you're bound to hear at least ten times on a Saturday night. For our American ladies, I guess you could compare it to Target. They have stylish and on trend clothing, but its just "cheap and cheerful". By immediately saying that we made our purchase at these stores, we're either (a) automatically trying to put our outfit down or (b) hoping to deflect away from the compliment by focusing on the bargain!!!While we should be saying 'Thank You" and owning our look. Its YOU that has picked the dress, YOU that has put the entire look together and its YOUR body that's making this outfit look as good as it does!!!

We have found that women typically have 3 common reactions to a compliment:

1. She blushes,loses the ability to speak, shakes her head, and looks down.
2. She will take the compliment, but put it down immediately.
3. She immediately compliments the person who gave her a complement, to get the attention off her.

Val and I admit to being guilty of all the above at one point or another. But we've decided that this should end now! We put effort into our appearance, we want people to notice that, therefore we need to learn how to take a compliment. It shouldn't be an uncomfortable or awkward experience, instead we should feel a sense of pride, we deserve to feel good!! 

How To Take A Compliment:

The team at Mode In Style have come up with a fantastic answer, and are sure you've heard it before. It's very simple really............just say THANK YOU!!! If after a couple of minutes, you notice that the compliment giver is wearing something that you genuinely wish to compliment then do so. Otherwise if you straight away respond with another compliment, you are again trying to take the attention from you and your compliment may seem disingenuous.

To finish, I would just like to say that Val and I are determined to practice what we preach and we hope you will all do the same. There is enough negativity in the world without us turning something positive like a simple compliment into a negative experience!! Please feel free to comment below and share any tips you have regarding the art of accepting compliments.

On the other hand, if you are not getting enough compliments, or simply can't relate to this blog, Mode In Style is here to help. Quote this blog and receive 10% off our 5 hour makeover package!Click here for modeinstyle.com

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Slan Go Foill.

(Bye for now)

St.Paddy's Day

As the saying goes "There are only two types of people in the world....The Irish and those who wish they were  Irish!!! So with St.Patrick's Day fast approaching myself and Val wanted to share some outfit ideas with you. But before we do we would like to talk a little bit about the color green, and why we wear it on St.Paddy's Day.

There are many reasons for the color green; green is the color of the shamrock, green is the color of spring, and green is the color of Ireland's lush landscape, hence why it is known as the Emerald Isle . However, my favorite explanation for wearing green on St.Patrick's Day is a bit far fetched, but you know us Irish love our folktales. According to Irish legends, St. Patrick's revelers thought wearing green made them invisible to leprechauns and fairy creatures who would pinch anyone they could see (anyone not wearing green). People began pinching those who didn't wear green as a reminder that leprechauns would sneak up and pinch green-abstainers!! So be sure to wear your green!!

Green is also a good color to wear to improve your mood. Green is linked to emotional balance, harmony, love, acceptance, peace and calmness. Another thing to note about the color green is that it is associated with the heart chakra. A balanced heart chakra means expansion, freedom and growth. Green symbolizes, creativity, health, abundance and nature.It is the combining of yellow (soul) and blue (spirit). Green, nature's color, offers new energy and revitalizes tired nerves. So as you can see, there are endless benefits attached to green, even on an ordinary day!

Now lets get to the fashion!!!Of course growing up in Ireland 'La Le Padraig' (paddy's day) was a big celebration and always an excuse to buy a new outfit! Whether you're going to the parade, on a pub crawl, or to a fancy evening event, we have put together an outfit that's sure to make your friends green with envy!

The first look that we would like to share with you is a casual look. In Ireland this would be typically worn during the day to the parade. Something stylish, yet very practical for a long day on you're feet. However, in Ireland you would need a big winter coat too! As much as we love Ireland we certainly don't miss the weather!!!

This next look is quite popular in both Ireland and San Francisco! Last year on Paddy's day, I saw a lot of people dressed in Leprechaun costumes here in the city! Some people love any excuse to put on a costume, as we say in Ireland, 'Its great Craic'! Contrary to how this saying may sound its actually loosely translated to 'its great fun'!

For our final look, we've put together some Paddy's Day party dresses! Its probably the look that I'm going to go for, I have a slight dress obsession!! For a modern take on the traditional green St.Patrick's day dress, why not mix it up with a little lime green, we love the lime dress shown below.

Don't forget to pop over to our website www.modeinstyle.com to check out what amazing styling options we have available for you.

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Slan Go Foill.
(Bye for now)

How does the way we dress affect us?!!

Its no new news that our clothes say a lot about us. Your outfit immediately informs people of your type of employment, spending habits, ambitions and emotions. Now there is a whole new type of psychology based on this topic. I just bought clinical psychologist Dr. Jennifer Baumgartners book "You are what you wear - what your clothes reveal about you". I'm really excited to begin reading it and as soon as I'm done I will post a review and share my new tips with you all. But today Val and I would just like to put it in simple terms and give you our opinion on how clothes affect peoples perception of others and self-perception.

Val and I are firm believers in the fact that how we dress affects our mood, whenever we're feeling a little bit down, we will purposely put together a killer outfit and in no time at all we will find ourselves confidently strutting down the street with smiles from ear to ear!! Looking good = Feeling good!!

That's not to stay that you have to be dressed to the nines everyday, but your outfit should look like you put effort into your appearance. This is something that comes naturally to some people, Val and myself have been blessed with this talent!In fact,I was just telling Val that ever since I can remember I have been planning my outfits for the following day whilst trying to fall asleep, and I cannot rest until I have put the right rig out together in my mind!

Fortunately if this is a skill that you don't possess or simply don't enjoy doing, Mode In Style is here to help. After our initial consultation we can provide you with an array of services, including closet purging, personal styling and we can even provide you with a personal style book ! One of our stylists will put looks together for you, it will be tailored to you're personal needs, all you need do is open up your book, choose one of the outfits that our stylist has put together for you and off you go!! Check out our website for more information on all the wonderful packages we have to offer - www.modeinstyle.com .Check us out!

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I would like to introduce you to the newest member of the Mode In Style team, Hazel Dennehy.

From the moment I was born I was destined to be a fashionista, the first item of clothing I ever wore was a pretty floral pattern dress, and to this day I am still wearing the same type of clothes!!! I would describe my style as romantic, playful and totally girly.....If it's pink and has a bow on it, it must be mine!!!! Growing up in Ireland it was all about the style, it was very important to look you're best at all times. As a nation the Irish really take a sense of pride in their appearance, I really think it's in our genes!! My great grandmother was 99 and still into her fashion, every time I went to visit her I would have to bring her a new dress (really cute old woman dresses, you know the kind with pearls attached!!). Even though she never left the house she wanted to look her best for her visitors!! So I grew up around a lot of fashionable women, especially my mom, it's thanks to her that I am the stylish woman I am today!

I'm so excited to have the opportunity to share my style and fashion knowledge with all of our clients at Mode In Style. I will be assisting Val with personal styling, event styling, closet purging, image consulting and all things fashion related. I have a plethora of experience in dressing every body type from petite to plus size, and no matter what you're figure I have the ability to make you look and feel fabulous.

5 Fun Facts:
Favorite Designer -Ted Baker.

Top Style Icon - Sarah Jessica Parker.

Favorite store - Everywhere!!!! There is no way I can choose just one!! Kate Spade, Topshop, Anthropologie, forever 21, ASOS, I could go on for days, this list is endless!!!

Best loved make up - Mac and Benefit

One product I can't live without - My fav pink lipstick - Candy Yum Yum by Mac.  

Fun and Inventive Fashion Tips For The Resourceful Lady!! 💖

Here at ModeInStyle we have a team of Irish stylists and us Irish love nothing more than some savvy fashion tips, so today we are going to share our latest finds with you!!!

Enjoy!

1) DIY Double Clothes Hangers.

Let's face it ladies you can never have enough space in your closet, and the good news is I have found a very cheap and effective way of doubling your closet space! All you need to do is save those little tabs from your soda can!! It's also a great way to pair your outfits and have them ready to go!!

(2) Hosiery &  Hairspray

Well as we all know already, you can save a run in your tights by putting some clear nail polish on it, ( I know this all too well growing up in Ireland tights were a mandatory part of my school uniform for the best part of 15 years!! And this was before nice soft tights came to Ireland - oh I can feel the itch just thinking about it, lol) . But  now I've learnt how to prevent a run in the first place and it's so
simple....Hairspray!! Before you wear your tights give them a quick spray, paying special attention to the areas that are prone to runs!! Easy Peasy!!

(3) Tights Under Ripped Jeans

This is probably my favorite tip!! This is something Ive been doing at home in Ireland for years....I used to wear tights under all my pants, not as a fashion statement (you couldn't even see them) it was just to stay warm!! So that is were I got the inspiration to add fashion tights under ripped jeans,  it really adds a nice sexy girly feel to them, so not only does it look good but it's also a handy way to keep you warm and these San Franciscan nights can get pretty chilly!!

(4) Make Your Own Cap Toe Shoes

This is a ModeInStyle favorite!! If you're like us and you have a closet full of old shoes, that you are just bored of here's a fun and easy way to bring them back to life!!! All you need is some tape and spray, check out the image below. I'm loving the metallic gold but you could use any shoe or any color, be as creative as you like!!

(5) Choosing Necklace For Necklines

At ModeInStyle we feel that pairing the correct style of jewellery with your neckline can make a huge difference to your outfit! Check it out the photo below, it has everything you need to know!

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Slan go foill
(Bye for now).